More or Less

Today a person asked me, what if he loves you less and you love him more?

I never really think that I loved my boyfriend more or he loved me less. I believe that it is possible to be more into someone than they are into you. But seriously, how can we really measure the amount of love we have for someone as opposed to the amount they may have for us? Do we ask a series of questions and compare the answers? It's just not that easy. I believe that when people say that they love their boyfriend/girlfriend more, they feel that they are putting more effort and emotion into the relationship than the other person. 

Not necessarily just the issue of love. I believe if both partners equally put in the effort into the relationship, then no one person had to feel that they were being loved less. 

For now, i'm happy to have him in my life and i believe we can work things out. =)

心声

Dear J,

These is dedicated to u n u only... these are my heartfelt feelings...maybe it is silly..but i mean every single word i say... 

I know you don't believe me when I say I love you so
but now you can read it and I can say now you know.
My love is still as strong today as it was when we first met
and I will always be here for you on that you can bet.
Because you mean the world to me I just have to say
that with each passing moment I love you more each day.
When you look at me I still get that feeling
that makes a part of my body point to the ceiling.
So love and kisses to you I send
My dearest my lover and my best friend

I love you because you're fun to be with, you can always make me smile.
I love you because you're so beautiful, I could sit and watch you for hours.
I love you because of the way you make me feel, it's like a thousand butterflies inside my body.
I love you because you let me be myself
There are many reasons y i love you in which there won't be enough to tell u all in this lifetime..
But most of all I love you because you complete me! x x


There are more than the above which i hope you listen:


Ever since we started conversing thru msn/text..everything was nice.. i was happy you shared your past with me as i shared mine with u.. i don't want this to change... even though there's nothing i could help, i am still willing to listen and ease your burden on your mind... please don't shut me out.. if there's anything at all i could do for u, let me know... alot of things it may be easier when we were strangers, but now that we are a couple, this should not change. we should walk together thru ups and downs, happy n sadness, overcoming every obstacles that come our way together as one.


you n i, are no longer alone. if there's anything at all, let me know, good or bad we must talk it out..
i know there's a lot of uncertainty, u and 1, are both affected by our past to a certain extent.. we are like lost babies, trying to figure out what we want and all. i believe, there's a lot of things you wouldn't want me to worry about  but as your other half, i wish that you could open up your heart to me more. There should be no barriers between us.


Darling, promise me no matter what you have to tell me, share with me...we do not know what will happen in the future, but right now, i just want to be with you, grow with you and support you in anyway i can. This is my decision and nothing will change it. 


I don't know if you feel the same, maybe you think i'm too silly, giving unnecessary pressure to myself or rushing things..but i'm not.. i just want to be a better woman for you worthy of your love. 


I could have a crappy day at work, but at night when I get to talk and think of you, you lift my gloomy spirits. You never makes me feel like I can have a bad day, and that is so uplifting to me. 

There's so many things i hope to do with u in our many days ahead.. will we have this chance? Maybe you would wonder y i keep saying i love u..mayb u think i'm deceiving myself..mayb..mayb...

but baby, i say it cos i really mean it, and i don't care how many times i say it and i mean every single time i say this to you. It may not sound sincere to u, but this is my heart, accept it. 

"We fell in love, despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me, love like that has only happened once, and that's why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory. I'll never forget a single moment of it." 

 

Everyday is important. Our good days are great, our bad days are shared but each and everyone is treasured. 

Thanks for sharing your life with me.

XoXo with Luvs,

Xh

New Cookie Recipe to Try

I'm so gonna try this!! Wait for my good news...

Here is the recipe. Sugar reduced  by half.

‘FAMOUS AMOS’ CHOCOLATE COOKIES RECIPE

 
Ingredients
1 bar butter (approx 250g)
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1/2 cup brown sugar
2 eggs
1 tsp. vanilla essence
2 cups plain flour
2 1/2 cups oatmeal, blended to powder
1/2 tsp. salt
1 tsp. baking soda
1 tsp. baking powder
340g chocolate chips
250g Chocolate bar, grated
100g nuts (your choice), chopped

Method
1. Preheat oven at 190C
2. Cream the butter and both sugars
3. Add eggs and vanilla, mix evenly
4. Fold in flour, oatmeal, salt, baking powder, and soda.
5. Add chocolate chips, grated chocolate bar and nuts. Mix well (I used my hands in a food grade plastic bag, as it is too thick for my mixer).
6. Roll into small balls (around 1 inch in diameter) and place two inches apart on a cookie sheet/tray.
7. Bake for 10 minutes at 190 C.

When the cookies are removed, they are soft. But when left cool, it will harden up and become slightly crisp outside (but chewy inside).

天涯海角

我愿意走过天涯飞过海角
只要能够守候在你身边
我愿意用这辈子让你相信
这就是唯一 幸福结局